Needed this....

I have listened to this a few times and need to really let it sink in... I know this is what I need to do... my husband can't or won't let go of his AP... they work together and he is her boss. So he would not only have to "break-up" with her but also fire her. He is not willing to do that... not sure if it is out of fear or because he loves her... he says he doesn't want to be married but hasn't filed or moved out... hoping to find the strength to push the envelope... I need to take care of me....