Hi Samuel! I am Always watching your videoblogs and am so greatful for them. I am now exactly one year from D-day and I have a big problem. Not my spouse, he is doing Everything right. He has done recovery work, he is displaying very safe behaviour and so on. The problem is, even though he is showing in all ways possible that I am the one he wants and that he is so serious with us, I can't stop hurting. And I can't stop being angry either. He Always lets me talk if I need, he Always listens, but I am still so filled with this dread that you call it. I am just waiting for the next betrayal. He really is doing all he can, and we have been to counceling together. Why am I so stuck? Why do I still have so much rage inside me? I love him and I don't want to leave him (unless of course he acts out again). Any tips you have for a stuck betrayed would be very appreciated, big thanks!
Still hurting so crazy much
Hi Samuel! I am Always watching your videoblogs and am so greatful for them. I am now exactly one year from D-day and I have a big problem. Not my spouse, he is doing Everything right. He has done recovery work, he is displaying very safe behaviour and so on. The problem is, even though he is showing in all ways possible that I am the one he wants and that he is so serious with us, I can't stop hurting. And I can't stop being angry either. He Always lets me talk if I need, he Always listens, but I am still so filled with this dread that you call it. I am just waiting for the next betrayal. He really is doing all he can, and we have been to counceling together. Why am I so stuck? Why do I still have so much rage inside me? I love him and I don't want to leave him (unless of course he acts out again). Any tips you have for a stuck betrayed would be very appreciated, big thanks!