Thank you for your vulnerability about your 3-year D-day experience. I just passed 2 years, but we haven't had full disclosure yet. Mostly because I am afraid he will not be emotionally available for me when I experience triggers/ambivalence. With regularity, he will react badly when I talk about triggers or relationship issues. This leads to more triggers and trauma because it reflects what happened when he used porn for many years without me knowing. I am reaching out to trusted others for support because I know we MUST get through the full disclosure, and yet, I MUST have support. Nothing on earth is perfect or easy, and even when I struggle, I know that God is making me more like Him. Thank you again.
Timely--THANK YOU
Thank you for your vulnerability about your 3-year D-day experience. I just passed 2 years, but we haven't had full disclosure yet. Mostly because I am afraid he will not be emotionally available for me when I experience triggers/ambivalence. With regularity, he will react badly when I talk about triggers or relationship issues. This leads to more triggers and trauma because it reflects what happened when he used porn for many years without me knowing. I am reaching out to trusted others for support because I know we MUST get through the full disclosure, and yet, I MUST have support. Nothing on earth is perfect or easy, and even when I struggle, I know that God is making me more like Him. Thank you again.