Hi Samuel. Thank you so much for these videos. They've been helpful. However, one thing I haven't seen addressed (I recently started watching...maybe a month or so ago) is what to do to fall in love with your spouse after you've betrayed her. My wife is doing really well...she's forgiven me, and we're working on things. But I can honestly say that, while I love her, I'm not in love with her. I am still missing my affair partner (who I've had zero contact with) almost four months after D-Day. While I know it will likely take longer to get over her, I just don't have the consistent feelings for my wife anymore. It makes me wonder if, while I'm doing the right thing by staying with my wife and family, our marriage will simply be one where we love each other, have feelings and make love here and there, but not be one of passionate love. I honestly don't know if I was ever in love with my wife. How do I fall in love with her after a year-long affair with someone I'm still pining for?
Doing all I can...is it enough?
Hi Samuel. Thank you so much for these videos. They've been helpful. However, one thing I haven't seen addressed (I recently started watching...maybe a month or so ago) is what to do to fall in love with your spouse after you've betrayed her. My wife is doing really well...she's forgiven me, and we're working on things. But I can honestly say that, while I love her, I'm not in love with her. I am still missing my affair partner (who I've had zero contact with) almost four months after D-Day. While I know it will likely take longer to get over her, I just don't have the consistent feelings for my wife anymore. It makes me wonder if, while I'm doing the right thing by staying with my wife and family, our marriage will simply be one where we love each other, have feelings and make love here and there, but not be one of passionate love. I honestly don't know if I was ever in love with my wife. How do I fall in love with her after a year-long affair with someone I'm still pining for?