My husband came home Aug 9, 2016 to say he was having an affair. Turns out he was actually living a double life with a girl he has known longer than me. They dated before we met. Just a short time, then broke up. A few months later he met me. She went on to get married before us. They never actually stopped seeing each other. He left Aug 25, staying in an undisclosed location, and told a friend of ours last night that he is seeing her again. Her husband busted them and that's why he told me. Her husband thinks he and his wife are reconciling. He is gone a few days a week because he is a pilot. My husband is a chief of police.