Q&A Is He Really Healing If He’s Thinking of the Affair Partner as a Friend?

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My husband had an affair with a family friend. Is he really healing if he’s thinking of her as a friend? He interrupted all contact, but every time we speak of her he seems he doesn’t see anything wrong or bad about her. He is saying that the affair was wrong, but that’s it. Also, both our families were attending the same church. It is a smaller church and both our families were involved in ministry. As of now we’re only attending online. But would it be safe for both families to still be going to the same church in the future? Would it make my husband vulnerable?



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