Q&A How Do I Stop Looking at Him as a Betrayer?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Wed, 03/08/2017 - 13:37

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As my husband and I work towards recovery after learning of his affair, how do I stop looking at him as a betrayer? When I look at him, all I can see is betrayal. I don't see the same person I have been married to. My vision of him is distorted. How can I get past this?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas