Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner?

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I’ve had 3 D-Days. The most recent was during my husband’s Hope for Healing group. He said he finally truly ended the affair as well, and I met with the affair partner and she seemed to confirm it. But he just can’t seem to get her out of his mind. Will he ever love only me again? Will I be the only one that takes up space in his head or will I always be sharing his thoughts with this person who took over our lives for a year and half? I truly believe my husband loved me whole heartedly once and I never thought he would do this or hurt me the way he has. But the worst part is knowing that another woman shares his thoughts and his heart. I know it isn't real. I know she lied to him about many things. He knows that as well now but still says he gets anxiety about her, wonders what she is doing, is curious and doesn't know how he could have been so wrong in his judgment. I’m blown away. We talked about cheating and how he should leave first if he ever wanted to go out of the marriage yet he still betrayed me and hurt me. The one man I never thought would. But I really just want to know if I’m wasting my time? Is it really possible for a man to fall back in love with his wife if he was in love with his affair partner? Because I don’t know how much more I can take.



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