Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner?

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Will I, the wife, be compared to the adultery partner in all manners including sexually? I do not know. I have nothing to gage to, since I have had sex only with my husband . I shouldn't even be embarrassed to ask anyone but I am. Isn't that ridiculous, it is more unusual to have lived a moral life honoring God and showing God that I love him by following the Word of God, than it is to have been in fornication and hooking up as kids call it now. I just want to know if I am being compared. Hopefully not.



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Am I being compared to the adultery partner?

Thank you Rick, your response answered my question. I appreciate you and your wife. Truly it is a difficult obedience to obey the word of God but it is following God's command to forgive...and show mercy and grace because that is what he has shown us...and that is his commandment ... not suggestion, it is what he commands us to do... "If you love me ...follow my commandments.... and the greatest of these is to love one another as I have loved you....."

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