Q&A Can There be no Feelings After an 8 Year Affair?

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Hi Rick. My husband had an affair with a married woman for 8 years. It ended only after I confronted him six months ago and told him our marriage was over. He says he has had no contact with her since I confronted him, he has no feelings for her, he doesn't think about her and wants nothing to do with her. We are working on our marriage and doing EMSO. I'm just really struggling to believe that after an 8 year affair, he can just shut it off like that. Do you think that's really possible?



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