Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage?

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Over the last year , I have had 8 D-Days. The last one just a year ago when he actually on a polygraph. He has confessed to 2 affairs, 2 one night stands, and 3 emotional affairs. All in trickle truth, and they were over a period of 4 years. He Has been very remorseful and getting a lot of counseling and as far as I know, has not had any more encounters since I found the first D-Day last September. I wanted to know if he had cheated on me throughout marriage, and if there was anymore I don't know about. But at this point, I told him to just tell his counselors, so he can get himself healed. So my question is, do I need to know more, if there is more, as long as he gets it out and gets help. Either way, I would like to stay and work through. I just can't handle the lying anymore.



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