Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail?

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HI, Rick

How can an unfaithful spouse help a betrayed spouse when there has been every possible comparison told to the betrayed by the ap and the unfaithful? We are in emso and it is healing us so much, but what do you do when the betrayed has way too many details? My husband tries to tell me the things he said to his ap were lies just like he was lying to me at that time. We are 10 months past the affair. What can we do at this point?

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Thank you Rick I took the

Thank you Rick I took the test I scored an 80. I will have an appointment for EMDR after June 1st I hope that can help me. I truly want to heal with my husband and I see all of his hard work so far. I'm just stuck. Thank you again.

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