My husband has been in so called recovery for the last 5 years. I have lost all trust and respect in him. He's never disclosed. He had to have a polygraph and even then the lies continued. Any work he's done was sparked by me. I don't think he's sincere. He says he's overwhelmed and tired. I guess the affair fallouts such as facing foreclosure and bankruptcy among other consequences are hitting him hard! He admitted responsibility, but has a hatred and blames the women who knew he was married and cheated with him for this mess. He hates them and wants them to suffer. I've been doing my work, and now he's gone back to an old therapist after I confronted him with the fact he hasn't been doing what he promised...Again. I don't feel sorry for him. He did this, and now he's tired. Should have thought about that years ago. I'm just wanting to detach and keep doing my work. He wants to do what he feels like doing. This is an insult. What do I do now because he's still a liar and our marriage is just a big fake. I just feeling angry and hurt for getting nothing out of this marriage except "three hits and a cot." I need love too.