Q&A Am I Safe?

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Please give your opinion of my safety when you read this statement sent to me by my husband. He sent this to after nine months of no self-recovery and a slow leak of information which is always discovered intuitively by me and never disclosed by him: “I know I need to come clean for your sake, but I don’t have the courage to do so.” He has been out of the house since April 13, 2019. D-Day October 13, 2018. The affair partner was a law student, 21 years younger, and now an attorney in the same field and same courthouse. He mentioned moving back home a week ago. Afterwards, I shared the article, “The Shocking Truth About Trust”, and he has avoided discussing the material after he mentioned he read it. He actually avoids all conversation about the affair. I see no hope for his recovery; however I have full intentions of achieving a full recovery of my own. I don’t think he is safe and reconciliation is hopeless.



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