I have a letter that I wrote to my husband’s affair partner. It's not aggressive; I just wanted her to know that she was part of the destruction of a family and that she should consider that before getting involved with married men. It has been 9 month since D-day and I still feel like I want to send it to her. My husband is no longer in contact with her so I do not want to open communication but its eating away at me that she is part of causing so much pain without any repercussions. I am not sure how to get passed this. What would you recommend?