In all of your experience, have you ever witnessed a couple successfully work on their marriage before the unfaithful spouse has broken off the affair? As in the ambivalent unfaithful spouse is still texting, calling, and meeting with the affair partner in a romantic way. But this same unfaithful spouse is also trying to make things better with their betrayed spouse. Does working on the marriage first give the unfaithful spouse more strength and motivation to end the affair?