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Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries?

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Question:

My husband’s affair partner is a work colleague. I have noticed that she is reaching out via text after I made it clear that it should only be on work email. She is also reaching out for his help on projects that are not imperative to his job. I have expressed my concerns about his boundaries not being solid. My husband has expressed that he doesn’t want to cause issues at work by refusing to help or making a big deal about texting. He is afraid it will draw attention to there being attention. How can I get him to understand how important it is to hold solid boundaries?

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Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:45

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Thank you!

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:46

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Thank you!

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:46

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Thank you!

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:46

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Thank you!

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:46

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Thank you!

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:46

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Thank you!

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:46

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Thank you!

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:46

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Thank you!

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:46

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Thank you!

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:46

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Thank you!

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:46

I appreciate your wisdom. Thank you for validating my concerns. Reading together is something we enjoy doing together. I will for sure look for that book you mentioned. Thank you again, Alicia

Sorry

Submitted by [name hidden] on Wed, 01/20/2021 - 21:47

Not sure why my comment posted multiple times!

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