Q&A How Should I Handle the Anniversary Dates of the Affair?

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I know all the dates in which my husband and his affair partner were together and the 1 year anniversary of those dates are quickly approaching. How do I survive those dates and thoughts on how those dates should be spent?

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Our first one year date was

Our first one year date was this Memorial Day when we first met the OW. The affair started 4th of July weekend and I found out 3 days before Thanksgiving so all big holiday triggers.

Memorial Day didn't go well because I was anticipating it. As we think ahead to 4th of July I like the idea of reclaiming it. I think I'd like us to go away with the kids cuz we tried go away this weekend but with the kids so added pressure.