My husband struggles with same-sex attraction. He committed all his numerous infidelities with men, not women. He says he still loves me and I have agreed to work on things but I have told him if he ever has sex with a man again we are done. Is it wrong to give him an ultimatum? I realize an addiction can have setbacks but I am not sure I could handle dealing with this again. I had no idea this was a struggle for him until he confessed what he had done. We have been married for 32 years.