I am 6 months from D-day. My husband, of 30 years, had a 1 year affair and moved out 5 months ago. He ended the affair 2 months ago. We talk, see each other twice a week or so, and I'm trying to connect again. He is not willing to recommit to our marriage. Do I continue to do what I am doing or shall I back off and wait until he wants to recommit? We did begin weekly counseling to begin a conversation about our future to see what remains and take the path out of this "stuck" place. He says he loves me but seems reluctant to pursue me.