Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair?

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I submitted a question to Rick last week about telling my co-worker about her husband’s affair. I was surprised by his answer and wondered if you guys agree with it. A lady, Sue, had an affair with a married man while she was single. After a while it ended but this man’s wife got a job here. So this woman is unknowingly working with her husband’s AP and has no idea he had an affair. Meanwhile everyone here knows and is keeping Sue’s secret. My question is should I tell this woman? I’m not friends with her and I would only tell her anonymously because I would be outcast for telling her. I just think she deserves to know. I found out about my husband’s affair through an anonymous letter so I know other people knew and didn’t tell me. Ricks advice was to let it be since it had ended. I just think she deserves to know what 30 or more other people know about her husband. What do you think?



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