What are your thoughts on safety in a situation where the unfaithful is not willing to do whatever it takes? My husband has been involved in an affair for years. Just when I thought that maybe things were different I discovered that he’s still in contact. Things I thought I needed such as access to cellphones, email accounts, etc. have been given begrudgingly but the actions haven’t changed. The heart change hasn’t occurred. At this point, safety for me means having him out of the house and taking legal action. I’d be interested in hearing what your take is in being safe.