Q&A What Should I Do?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Mon, 05/07/2018 - 14:50

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My unfaithful wife is dealing with several extremely stressful problems besides our marriage and the affair, including a severe medical issue, family issues, and work problems. The easy answer is "so what," but I'm struggling with wanting to be a good husband and truly be there for her. This is difficult in the middle of recovery work when she's not able to be completely dedicated to recovery, and the affair is still a very fresh wound.

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I thik we all know what we are supposed to do. But the hurt is too much and we are too tired to be FULLY nice to anyone...... I am in a same situation and i dont want to be bitter. I don't want to lower myself because of what my husband did. But it's very hard.

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