My wife's affair partner would come to our house after I left for work for about two years. My home is a trigger. I am trying to find a way to live without these triggers. We are trying to stay together. We are considering remodeling or moving. Every house we look at my wife hates. I can't take any more. I'm starting to think sell the house, split up, and get my own apartment to live in solitude. I could sure use some guidance here to help decide.