Q&A Why Should I Believe My Husband Is Really Committed to Me When He Would Go Out of His Way for the Affair Partner, but Not for Me?

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When I tell my husband about a trigger, he doesn’t try to make circumstances better for me or do something special for me that would help the trigger not hurt as much. However, when an unplanned occasion arose with the affair partner, my husband would call or text her, pick her up in our vehicle, and have sex with her. Why should I believe my husband is really committed to me when he would go out of his way for the affair partner, but not for me?



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