I'm having a hard time with the fact that during my husband's affair he shared intimate details of our life and, I assume our sexual life as well. It's so frustrating to me that she had this one way mirror looking into our marriage but I could not see much into their infidelity. I'd like to ask my husband to either share with me verbally details about her or written out as a letter to me. Part of me is feeling that I need this from him to make sure the limerence is gone but also somewhat for disclosure. I would appreciate your thoughts on this and whether it is healthy.