We are in EMS Online and I feel there is a lot of progress made from the lessons, but my husband does not want to be open and honest about the details of the affair. Most of the details l have were extracted out of him, like a tooth, and it does not make me feel like he wants to open up to me. I feel like I forced him and still forcing him to open up. He says he has told me a cohesive story and the details are not important. In my mind he should not control what I want to know, and I would like to see an attitude of truthfulness and openness. Am I wrong to ask for details?