My husband had what I would consider a limerant affair. He tells me it never got physical but he has lied so much that I am not sure I can believe him. The thing is that I am not sure I want to know. I feel like we are both committed to trying to work past this and heal our marriage and if I found out it went to that point I am not sure I could handle that added betrayal. Is it wrong for me to tell him that if he did sleep with her that I don't ever want to know about it?