I am the one that placed an end to the affair for my husband. He did not make the decision but says he doesn't want anything to do with his affair partner. Does he need closure of his own? Should he reach out to her and speak to her with me present? I just want him to have full closure with the affair and to let her know his feelings as well. He says he doesn't need closure however I fear that if he doesn't have it, he will always wonder if he still lives her or if she still loves him. He has said that he doesn't want to do this but would do it for me if it helps with my healing… help.