My husband was heavily addicted to porn and other women. He's almost 4 months clean and has really dived into our church life. However, he has started disrespecting me again and is putting his new church buddies before me and before recovery work. Even leaving me alone to care for myself after surgery so he can go hang out with his church buddies and lying to me about it. He gets angry and defensive if anything comes up that would steal him away from fishing or golfing with his new friends. It feels exactly like when he was in his addiction.