We married in 2010. In February 2012 my spouse told me to leave. He refused contact in every way. He filed divorce. I moved on. In October 2012 I got into a relationship with someone. Our final divorce hearing was set for December 2012. A week before he called me. I told him I was in a relationship. At the final hearing he said he did not want to divorce. So we agreed to try. We moved back in together in March 2013. I cut off the relationship I was in. Since my husband has been in an affair for the last 8 years. I divorced him last year in 2020. Separated but we have still been seeing each other off and on til now. We agreed to do EMS Online. We are week 2 now. Although he missed a week and he still shows behavior of engaging with the affair partner. Like blocking my number all last week. Yesterday he told me that he has a problem with my relationship in 2012. I do not know what I make of this.