Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust?

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I am currently in week 6 of EMS Online and only a few weeks out from the 1 year anniversary of D-Day. We had been progressing quite well and have had two mostly pleasant and stable weeks together - the best we’ve done. However, my intuition told me she wasn’t being fully truthful. I was right. I caught her and the affair partner together at a hotel across town. She claims he initiated the meeting to rekindle and she held steadfast to break it off. That sounds like a 2 minute coffee shop conversation- not 8 hours in a hotel room across town. She says she chooses me. I can’t handle any more pain and deception and am no longer sure I want her. How can I, or we, move on?



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