Q&A How Can We Overcome the Pain of Anniversary Dates?

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It will be one year this month since I betrayed my wife, The most unfortunate thing is that the same is our wedding anniversary month. My wife is overwhelmed by this senseless betrayal, While the timing was not deliberate but coincidental, to her, this is the month of my anniversary with the affair partner. I appreciate this is so painful for her and the sense of hurt is just too much. She sees nothing worth celebrating. Twenty five years of marriage have gone down the drain. My wife and I are together and she has been so gracious. I have a great determination to rebuild my marriage and make up for the loss (so help me God). I love my wife and would not want to hurt her with proposals that would cause adverse triggers. How could I best handle this anniversary issue, current and subsequent?



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