We are currently in week 10 of EMS Online. An issue that keeps coming up is from Peggy Vaughn's "Monogamy Myth." My husband keeps bringing up the fact that he's attracted to all these women and that he's telling me because he's doing it for our marriage, he wants to be open and honest, and stay transparent. It sounds all good in theory but when he shares, especially yesterday, I felt retraumatized and unable to feel safe in our relationship. What do you suggest? How does my husband share his attractions to other women when I'm still dealing with betrayal from an affair?