Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Not Going All-In on Recovery?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Thu, 06/17/2021 - 12:03

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Question: 

We are in Week 10 of EMS Online and my wife still keeps all things and evidence of my past as a backup plan to get out. She says she is working on our recovery but it does not seem that she is fully committed. Samuel announcing his divorce created even more doubt in her mind. She asked me if any of this that we are doing is actually worth the trouble and if any of this will make a difference.

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas