Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Engage?

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I am the unfaithful. My wife and I attended the EMS Weekend. I take full responsibility now for all my actions. I am in crisis again- I love my wife, but we are emotionally separated. She is okay with the status quo and I don't want complacency in our marriage. We have struggled with this thru the years (off and on) with this. Sometimes I just settle but stay unhappy. I am ambivalent with what to do- to stay or leave. I express how I feel to my wife, but it just leads to stonewalling and anger on her part.



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