That's Not the Way I Would Handle it...

It's a destructive pattern for either spouse to say how they would describe themselves if they were on the other side of the affair.... Today we'll talk about why.

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thank you

That was a really helpful post. I have been trying really hard to separate my feelings for what my husband did for what his feelings might have been, or had not been, and that was right in line. Thank you! I needed to hear that.

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