My husband told me recently, after all these years, whenever I had gatherings with friends or when my parents had something he would visit his parents and start the slandering. So that right there feels like an affair partner. He would tell me he’s either tired, had a house project, studying, you name it, but come to find out he was going over to his parents trashing me and my parents. It’s so bad he told my in laws to screw what I say. I don’t want them around me or my baby especially with the holidays coming up. What should I do?