My husband has had 3 emotional affairs, 2 physical affairs, and he was addicted to porn over the course of our 26 year marriage. I want to know if he is a sex addict. The test he took from your site resulted that he was not a sex addict. I cannot understand why he would not be a sex addict. Do you think people grow out of sex addiction? I am at a loss. Most recent D-Day was April 2018 - one time sexual affair. I went through Harboring Hope in summer 2018. We are in week 10 of EMSO. Healing is progressing. I still don't have a warm fuzzy that he has all the tools and resources. I want to make sure he gets the right help to avoid this again. I will not survive another betrayal.