Hi Rick: I do not like attending or hearing about a wedding ever since discovering he betrayed me. I feel very upset that my spouse feels the need to attend these events of family members with statements such as he feels obligated and needs to show support. I feel that is exactly what he should have done in our marriage and that it is a double standard. I don't even have our wedding photos out anymore since discovery 2 years ago,and don't celebrate our anniversary. I appreciate your thoughts, thanks.