Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners?

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I have struggled with intimacy anorexia for our entire relationship and only just recently learned that is what it was. My wife is very frustrated that I will not initiate. I feel lost. I don't know how to have a normal sex life after 10+ years of acting out. Not looking to recreate the "high" from my affairs just looking to give her what she deserves. We are looking for a therapist to help us together but not having much luck. Thank you for all you do.



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