Q&A Is This Infidelity?

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My husband and I are currently participating in EMS Online. When I learned of the affair, I kicked my husband out of house. Within 6 weeks he was in an intimate relationship with a different woman and it ended 3 months later. She manipulated him, but he said he had fallen in love with her. He has recently moved back home. He insists that because she was not infidelity, she was a relationship, that it is ok to see her. I disagree. He had a sexual relationship with this woman less than a year ago and because he tells me she has a boyfriend it is ok to see her. He also told me that she can’t talk to her boyfriend and that my husband is her rock. She is afraid of her boyfriend. Let me finish this with saying my husband is trying to quit illegal drugs (meth) and she uses drugs. There is NOTHING good that can come from this situation. What do you say?



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