Q&A Is My Behavior a Reason for My Mate to Not Follow Boundaries?

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My husband says that he doesn't have to follow agreed boundaries when I'm not being safe myself. This feels like manipulation to me. He went without me to see one of our mutual female friends after I was too tired to go. I had hoped he would not go and show me that even when it's inconvenient he will provide me the safety of the boundaries. Do I really need to behave perfectly for him to keep his word?

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