My D-day was August 20th, 2015. He started acting up in June and then staying at work (on his project in Houston, we live in Nashville) for WEEKS. I found out by going through his phone and saw the email. I didn't even know anything was "wrong"- 23 years of marriage and he just walked out. MOVED to Houston where his new girl lives- never talking to me again-only when he has to. I have filed and he has been served. He comes back here about once every three weeks, just to get clothes and he leaves. SO HORRIBLE. The betrayal runs DEEP. I'm so happy I have the Lord and Harboring Hope. I'll NEVER understand this.