Q&A Should I Change Churches or Should I Just Get Over It since It Was All in His Fantasies?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Fri, 12/17/2021 - 13:31

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My husband has an addiction to pornography and confessed 2 months ago to sexually objectifying a woman at church for his self gratification. It has been difficult for me to see her as I become very triggered and angry at my husband. Church that was once comforting and a refuge is now traumatizing for me to attend. Should I change churches or should I just get over it since it was all in his fantasies?

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