Because of continual serial lying I secretly recorded my husbands conversations w/ his accountability partner after finding out about his multi decade addictions and sexual sin, and discovered via the recordings that he thought I was obsessed w/ her (the AP), that I was mentally unhealthy and stalking her (I looked at her FB page and he called that stalking) Etc., He was very agitated and angry speaking about me on the recording but defensive and seemingly protective of "her". Putting 2+2 together it doesn't take a rocket scientist to suspect there are residual emotions. -Signed a "mentally unhealthy" betrayed spouse because she "cared" enough to want to know who her husband was seeking to have sexual relations with for almost 5 years..