Q&A Should I Make the Affair Partner Replace the Financial Loss?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Wed, 04/03/2019 - 12:44

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My husband's infidelity had caused us at least $100K. He spent it on his affair partner. I have a complete list of the transactions and withdrawals. Two of them is for $15K that said LOANS. I have the copy of the checks. I am very tempted to hire a collection agency to get the payments from the affair partner. Should I pursue this or should I just consider this a loss?

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