Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger?

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I am the unfaithful. We are 10 months from D-Day. My wife is extremely angry, doesn't speak to me or acknowledge me. I am in the house with her and my 4 children. Only one couple and my mother in law know of my affair. We have been to counseling. I have completed HFH. My wife is stuck in her anger. She says this is how it will be forever. She won't leave because of our children. She says she feels so much pressure to make a decision. Pressure to forgive for herself. Forgive to help move past her anger. She feels pressure from her mom and her friend to not live a life like this. She says she feels more judgement because she isn't trying to make any progress. Can you help?



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