Q&A What Should I Do With the Saved Messages between My Husband and His Affair Partners?

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I have saved a lot of the emails and instant messages sent between my husband and several of his affair partners. I go back and read them to remind myself that I am not crazy but even when the messages are printed out for my husband to read, he still gaslights me. Should I show them to a therapist or delete them?



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