Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Thu, 03/11/2021 - 10:12

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I constantly study to get better and meet her needs going above and beyond everyday submitting to what she wants but she cannot see it. Why does she dismiss all it takes to not only stay but be a great husband that was getting better before the previous affair but even better afterwards?

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